Write India - November 2015
“Why can’t
you understand, life is not that simple. You can’t just wish for your problems
to go away like that without doing anything about it”, cried Arjun.
“I don’t
mind talking about problems, but it you have to understand that you are not
always correct. Why don’t you try to visualize life from someone else’s
perspective as well”, replied Tanya.
“There is
no point talking sense to you. You will always be trapped in the limitations of
your own thinking. So much for being a wannabe feminist, all you know is how to
twist everyone else into forcing them to accept what you want them to.”
“How can
you be so insensitive, Arjun. One day you propose to me telling me that you
love my outlook of life and the very next day you question the very basis of my
belief system. What do you want me to do, please tell me because now I’m not
sure if I can even understand what is going on inside your head.”
“I want you
to think and talk to me when you are back in the right frame of mind.” Arjun
said as he disconnected the phone without even listening to what Tanya had to
say. The argument was stretching beyond it meaningful limits and he did not
like where it was heading. He loved Tanya, but hated it when she became all
bossy owing to the teachings of her newfound militant-feminist-mentor from her
NGO, Shreya who would have blown all the men in the world if she had her way.
Tears
rolled down her cheeks as Tanya contemplated the recently concluded phone call.
“You need to leave that loser Arjun and be more independent. No one will
respect you if you don’t have your own individuality. Men like Arjun feed upon
your dependence on them and they will continue to do so unless you stand up to
them and show them their true place”, said Shreya who had been silently
listening to them both fight it off.
“He’s not
like the others Shreya. Arjun is different and I know that. You have met him
only once and not in the best of the circumstances. I don’t think you should
judge him based on just a five minute meeting.” Tanya was always stuck between
Shreya and Arjun. Both hated each other but, she loved both of them so much
that she found it difficult to not bring up either when talking to the other.
“That is
the problem with you Tanu. He spoke so harshly to you and still you defend him.
You need to learn how to shut off people who don’t deserve to be in your life.”
“I don’t
feel good. I think I should sleep for a while. Chal, see ya later.”
“Okay, as
you wish, but I’m telling you that you need peace more that sleep and there is
only one way to do that.”
“I will
think about that later. Bye Shreya”
“Bye Tanu”
She pressed
the red button on her screen and the Skype window minimized to reveal the photo
of all three of them standing in front of Qutub Minar with the grumpy face of
Arjun while Shreya tried to look like she was unaffected by his presence.
Looking at it Tanya chuckled as she realized how crazy yet great her friends
were.
She shut
her laptop and lay down. Looking at the radium sticker of stars on her ceiling
that Arjun had put up there reminded her of him just as it did every night or
whenever she looked at it. They had been together for more than three years now
and she had never seen Arjun get so riled up before. He had a lot of work
related stress these days and also his relationship with Shreya was far from
even being comfortable. She knew something was bugging him and it would pass on
in a day or two like it always did, but still she did not feel good about the
just concluded conversation of theirs. Feeling a little guilty, she texted him,
“You are more important to me than any
–ism that I may believe in. Looking forward to the family lunch on Saturday. ;-) Love you.” She waited a while for his
reply, but soon fell asleep looking at the pictures of their recent trip to
Agra.
She willed
herself to not check her phone to see if he had replied. It had been about
three days now. She hated that she was constantly checking his 'last seen at'
status and yes, he had logged in just five minutes ago. Yet she couldn't stop
herself. The sinking feeling to find absolutely no communication from him was
becoming unbearable, almost torturous.
And then,
just as she sat down in her chair, her phone vibrated. With her heart thudding
in her ear, she unlocked her phone and stared at the screen. Finally! It was
his message.
But when
she opened it and read it, she nearly stopped breathing. She didn't know if he
was joking or not. What was this?
“Won’t be attending the anniversary
lunch. But you should go. It’s a good occasion to get yourself acquainted with
the family. Take Shreya with you if you wish to.”
She
forwarded the message to Shreya and within a minute Shreya called her on Skype.
“Has he
gone mad? What does he think of himself?” barked Shreya while Tanya stared bewildered
at her phone and then at the laptop screen.
“I don’t
know. If he’s not gonna be there, then what will I do there. I don’t even know
anyone there except his parents and his brother.”
“Like I
know anyone and why is he asking me to go? He does not have any regard for you
or his family. It’s all work for him and by the way who works on a Sunday
skipping his family. I’m telling you Tanu. Men never understand. All that
matters to them is ‘their work’ and ‘their feelings’. Stop it when you can or
you will be trapped like those countless other women suffering at the hands of
their husbands. Don’t be trapped in this madness of a wedding. Nothing good is
gonna come out of it.”
“I wish he
picked up his phone. He surely must have something in mind.”
“You are
still not thinking clearly Tanu. He is a psycho and you are ignoring that.
Besides, he is emotionally incapable of understanding love or even caring for
someone, don’t expect sanity from him.” Tanya always marveled at Shreya’s
capability of escalating Arjun’s shortcomings and this one could have topped
the list but she was too engrossed in her thoughts to listen to Shreya’s rants.
“So what do
you think? Wouldn’t it seem wrong if I don’t go, especially after his mother
called me personally? If I don’t go she will feel bad.” She said, trying to
dodge Shreya’s yet another attempt to turn it into an Arjun-bashing marathon.
“Her own
son is not going, how would that make her feel. If he doesn’t care, why should
you?”
“Well,
because we both know Arjun and we know that sometimes he might act stupid but
he doesn’t mean it. And if I don’t go that would greatly undermine my bond with
her which I don’t want to for she is such a lovely lady.”
“She might
be lovely or whatever, but the problem is her son. You need to see people for
what they are. You are a good person and you see good in everyone and that is
your greatest weakness. Meet me at CP and we will go someplace nice. You can
call his mother if you wish to but I don’t see a point in going there like
that.”
“Maybe you
are right. I think I will call her.”
“Okay and
then get ready. Remember CP in an hour Tanu.”
“Aye Aye
Captain”
She
disconnected the call and got up to get ready. Calling his mom was going to be
tricky, but Arjun had left her no choice. A day out with Shreya should help her
straighten her thoughts for this was getting too messed up.
Later that
night when they got home, she saw a text from Arjun. “Thank you for not showing up today when I had specifically requested
you. Saw pics of today’s trip on Shreya’s profile. Maybe she is right and it’s
better if you stop wasting your time on me and concentrate more on what you
guys are doing. At least that would be more substantial than wasting your time
with someone who doesn’t even care for his family.”
Noticing
the sudden dullness that had befallen her friend, Shreya snatched the phone
from Tanya and read the text that she was so intensely staring at. Tanya
started to sob quietly and Shreya knew the situation as quickly getting out of
control.
She
comforted Tanya and tried to reassure her. “It’s okay yaar. He is just mad like
he always is. Give him a day or two and he will get back to normal. You know na
how it is with these guys.”
“I think I
should have gone Shreya. It’s all my fault. I was too selfish to look for
anything else but my interests. And see what happened” her voice mixed up with
her crying so badly that it was difficult to comprehend what she was saying.
“He … he is gonna leave me, Shreya.”
“Don’t be
stupid Tanu. You know him better than that. He makes a lot of noise, but
doesn’t do anything, besides, he needs you more than you need him. And no
matter how stupid he is, he surely is not foolish enough to let you leave. Mark
my words.”
“But you
read his text, right. He is very stubborn and he will not forgive me for
today.”
“Listen to
me Tanu, you are too blindfolded in your feelings for him, but you don’t see
the real Arjun. If my analysis of him is correct, as it always is, he will call
you tomorrow and apologize for today. He speaks a lot but doesn’t think that
much. And like any other guy out there, will regret it and come back around.
They may not have the guts to own it up, but they know when they are wrong.
They are just slow in understanding that and your specimen has a world record
in being the dumbest dude around. So cheer up dear.”
Tanya
wanted to believe her, but something kept her from believing that everything
was right and she feared that maybe Arjun was serious this time around. Shreya
tucked her into her bed and went out to call her parents that she was going to
stay at Tanya’s for tonight. Tanya waited for her to return, but it took her a
little while and by the time she was back Tanya was already asleep.
Next
morning when Tanya woke up, she jumped in jubilation at seeing the texts from
Arjun, “Sorry for last night. Was drunk
and out of my mind. Really sorry.”
“On my way to your place. Get ready, let’s
have a day out!”
She tried
to wake up Shreya but she just wouldn’t budge. When everything else failed, she
decided to play that awful song that Shreya hated but still kept in her phone.
As she
unlocked her phone it opened to her call log. The last entry read
Arjun
Saturday 7 November 2015 11:45pm
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